Do you wish to chase after love? Probably you are, and you are very eager to look for your soulmate and enter into romantic bliss. The joy you see in other couples is something you desire for yourself. But before you jump in, pause for a while and give a good look at your life first. Have some Temperance first, think about these things rationally. Are you really ready to share your life with another person? Are you mature enough for handling the challenges of a relationship? Likely you are not, and it is time to do some work. Before you let someone into your life, it will be good for both parties if you put your own house in order first. Fix your own problems and defects and become a better person for others. Romance is about sharing the best in you with your soulmate, and not turning others off with the worst in you!