AQUARIUS 1 How should you deal with jealousy?
AQUARIUS
How should you deal with jealousy?
AQUARIUS 1
When jealousy is involved, Aquarius, you should be careful not to take things too seriously. Being reliant on another person for your pleasure is the last thing you desire because you are a very independent person. Having said that, it’s crucial to keep in mind that if someone close to you is envious, it’s not personal; they simply desire what you have or believe they are deserving of it. Try not to be sucked into the drama; keep in mind that jealousy is a feeling, not a reflection on the person or what they have done wrong. Instead, concentrate on what brings you joy and proceed from there. Keep your edge – Many people dislike the thought of competing, but what we’re discussing here is a personal aim of being the best version of ourselves, not a goal of being the best. That entails being authentically oneself and embracing the traits that will help us achieve our goals. We can allow ourselves to feel inspired, to connect with who we want to be, and to take acts that move us in that direction rather than letting the green monster transform us into monsters. We must practice awareness and consideration in our relationships if we hope to earn the respect of people around us. We must make a commitment to acting lovingly every single day if we wish to experience our partner’s love consistently. The effort to recognize and develop into our genuine selves—separate from everyone else—is the most significant conflict we will face. If we can keep the will to act honorably and pursue our objectives, we succeed.
Talk about it, Aquarius – It’s crucial to find the correct person to talk to and a constructive way to communicate our feelings when something like envy starts to rule our lives. We want to discuss our jealousy with individuals that encourage a good side of ourselves and who help us avoid dwelling on or delving more into our sorrows. We all have friends that tend to get a bit too stirred up when we bring up particular topics, and these may not be the best friends to turn to when we too are feeling provoked and agitated. We should look for people who will encourage us to continue on course and act in the ways we want to. Venting to these buddies is acceptable as long as we’re aware that our exaggerated and unreasonable ideas and feelings are what we’re doing. Only when it permits us to let go of the emotion and go on to take appropriate action does this process function. It’s also important to seek a therapist’s assistance if we are experiencing jealousy-related symptoms. By doing so, we may better understand and manage our emotions and respond in more healthy and flexible ways as a result.
It’s crucial to keep an open line of communication with our partner in a relationship. We must listen to what they have to say without getting defensive or jumping to conclusions if we want to earn their trust and for them to earn ours. This open channel of communication is not about dumping our insecurities on our spouse, but rather about allowing ourselves to be nice and connected, even when we are feeling insecure or envious. Naturally, doing so encourages our partner to follow suit.