Gemini 1 How should you deal with jealousy?
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How should you deal with jealousy?
Gemini 1
You probably aren’t used to having to cope with jealousy as a Gemini. You strive to be able to accomplish what makes you happy without having to think about other people since you are a very independent and self-sufficient person. When it comes down to it, though, it’s impossible to avoid feeling envious of other people’s success sometimes. You may believe that jealousy is merely a negative emotion brought on by a lack of confidence or trust in oneself or others. But in reality, envy may teach us a lot about both ourselves and other people. When we experience jealousy, it usually indicates a shift in our own values and priorities. And if we understand what those changes are, we can seize the chance to advance!
So how do you handle jealousy? The first step is realizing that it exists: when someone else achieves something more amazing than what is feasible for them at their current stage of life (or even beyond), they could make you feel inadequate or that you have no control over your own fate. This might cause us to develop unhealthy patterns of self-hatred and animosity toward people who appear to be superior in some way. Determine whether your insecurities are what are causing your jealousy. Fears of jealousy toward a partner are frequently rooted in unfavorable opinions about oneself. Do you feel jealous of your partner when they are out mingling with others because you fear for the future of your union? Or perhaps you feel inferior since you don’t enjoy the same hobbies that he does outside of the relationship. Insecurity can be bred by putting all of your self-worth in one particular relationship. Give your self-esteem a boost if it needs it. Be careful to have hobbies and extracurricular pursuits outside of your relationship.
Additionally, if there is a problem, discuss it. When it comes to trust and faithfulness, all partnerships benefit from mutually agreed upon rules. And according to Freeman, it’s a good idea to bring up these topics in a relationship that you cherish. It might be quite beneficial to start the dialogue, especially if you sense a separation or someone restraining themselves. But before you engage in a conversation, consider what you hope to gain from it. What you say and how you say it is crucial if you’re going to talk about it. Consider your desired outcome before you start the dialogue. Do I want them to make it right if I confess to being envious to someone? Do I want them to tell me that being jealous is wrong? You may also want to talk about another issue that is making you feel envious, such as your recent sense of growing distance from that individual. Choose whether it is preferable to choose trust. Discussing the reasons behind your feelings of jealousy or acting on petty suspicions can be useful at times. However, being overly watchful or cautious might occasionally be a sign of mistrust. Have they given you any cause to doubt them? In the end, we might never understand why the other person acted in the way that made you envious. By choosing trust, we frequently spare ourselves and our relationship a great deal of worry, stress, and suffering.
Gemini, be composed. Keep in mind that jealousy awakens us. It can be beneficial to have thoughtful discussions about the reasons why someone in a relationship is feeling envious and what could be done to lessen those feelings. Conversations that get heated and involve accusations of neglecting the other person can get out of control very quickly. She advises trying to have the chat before the situation worsens and you become quite agitated. Inform your partner that you want to talk about how you’re feeling so that our jealousy doesn’t fester and turn into something negative. Consider it as a discussion rather than a conflict.